Red Ink and Raised Voices: What are we really teaching?

I hear it over and over again in supervision sessions: ◾ a mentor who once yelled at a trainee that they were unfit for this profession
Let the Wound Breathe

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐥𝐚𝐩 𝐚 𝐁𝐚𝐧𝐝-𝐀𝐢𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐬.
A tale of two chairs: Stylist’s and mine

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 — 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐭𝐬.